Recovery from compulsive debting begins when we stop incurring new, unsecured
debt, one day at a time. (Unsecured debt is any debt that is not backed up by
some form of collateral, such as a house or other asset.) We attain a daily
reprieve from compulsive debting by practicing the Twelve Steps and by using the
following tools.
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Action Plan
With the help of our Pressure Relief Group, we develop a list of specific
actions for resolving our debts, improving our financial situation, and
achieving our goals without incurring unsecured debt. |
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Meetings
We attend meetings at which we can share our experience, strength and
hope with one another. Unless we give to newcomers what we have received
from DA we cannot keep it ourselves. |
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Record Maintenance
We maintain records of our daily income and expenses and of the retirement
of any portion of our outstanding debts. |
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Anonymity
We practice anonymity, which allows us freedom of expression by assuring
that what we say at meetings or to other DA members at any time will not be
repeated. |
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The Telephone and The Internet
We maintain frequent contact with other D.A. members by using the telephone,
e-mail, and other forms of communication. We make a point of talking to
other D.A. members before and after taking difficult steps in our recovery. |
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Pressure Groups and Pressure Meetings
After we have gained some familiarity with the D.A. program, we organize
Pressure Relief Groups consisting of ourselves and two other recovering
debtors who have not incurred unsecured debt for at least 90 days and who
usually have more experience in the program. The group meets in a series of
Pressure Relief Meetings to review our financial situation. These meetings
typically result in the formulation of a spending plan and an action plan. |
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Spending Plan
The spending plan puts our needs first and gives us clarity and balance in
our spending. It includes categories for income, spending, debt payment and
savings (to help us build cash reserves, however humble). The income plan
helps us focus on increasing our income. The debt payment category guides us
in making realistic payment arrangements without depriving ourselves.
Savings can include prudent reserve, retirement and special purchases. |
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Sponsorship
We have found it essential to our recovery to have a sponsor and to be a
sponsor. A sponsor is a recovering debtor who guides us through the Twelve
Steps and shares his or her own experience, strength, and recovery. |
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Attend Business Meetings
We attend business meetings that are held monthly. Many of us have long
harbored feelings that "business" was not a part of our lives, but for
"others" more qualified. Yet participation in running our own program
teaches us how our organization operates, and also helps us to become
responsible for our own recovery. |
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D.A. and A.A. Literature
We study the literature of Debtors Anonymous and of Alcoholics Anonymous to
strengthen our understanding of compulsive disease and of recovery from
compulsive debting. In A.A. literature we can identify with many of the
situations described by substituting the words "compulsive debt" for
"alcohol." |
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Awareness
We maintain awareness of the danger of compulsive debt by taking note of
bank, loan company and credit card advertising and their effects on us. We
also remain aware of our personal finances in order to avoid vagueness,
which can lead to compulsive debting or spending. |
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Service
We perform service at every level: personal, meeting, Intergroup, and World
Service. Service is vital to our recovery. Only through service can we give
to others what so generously has been given to us. |